Sunday, December 19, 2010

Believe Once More

And the Grinch with his Grinch-feet ice cold in the snow,
stood puzzling and puzzling, how could it be so?
It came without ribbons.  It came without tags.
It came without packages, boxes, or bags.
And he puzzled and puzzled 'til his puzzler was sore.
Then the Grinch thought of something he hadn't before:
What if Christmas, he thought doesn't come from a store?
What if Christmas, perhaps, means a little bit more?
How the Grinch Stole Christmas, Dr. Seuss


     The Grinch, that despicable, green skinned, Christmas killer with a heart three sizes too small, was envious of the Whos and their Christmas celebration, the ribbons and packages and decorations, even the ham.  Does anyone ever stop and wonder, whatever happened to the Grinch causing him to have such a distaste for  Christmas?  At what point did he choose to live in a cold, hard reality of fear and doubt and scarcity?  Why did he not choose, like the Whos, a Christmas filled with magic, wonder, anticipation, abundance? 

     It is Christmas once again.  Many of us are choosing to live a life during this season of the year full of overindulgence of food, alcohol, spending, partying....  We live a life of distraction, numbing ourselves to the celebration around us for a myriad of reasons, which range from childhood trauma during the holidays to financial choices which have led to lifestyle instabilities.  We fill our celebration of Christmas with unnecessary, expensive behaviors that do not lend meaning to the truth of Christmas and what it means to each of us individually.  As Upton Sinclair so aptly states "Consider Christmas-could Satan in his most malignant mood have devised a worse combination of graft plus bunkum than the system whereby several hundred million people get a billion or so gifts for which they have no use, and some thousands of shop clerks die of exhaustion while selling them, and every child in the Western world is made ill from overeating-all in the name of the lowly Jesus."   As many who celebrate this sacred Christian holiday will tell you, we are now in the final stretch with only five days left til Christmas.  The clock ticks down and we continue with our "traditions" of putting up holiday decorations, baking, and the never ending purchasing of the perfect gift for all those we love.  Harlan Miller postulates that "probably the reason we all go so haywire at Christmas time with the endless, unrestrained and often silly buying of gifts is that we don't quite know how to put our Love into words."  Wouldn't it be refreshing, to stop the unnecessary in our Christmas preparations and to simply "smile at our loved one, offering them our hand." (Mother Teresa of Calcutta). 

     There was probably a time in each of our lives, when we were aware of the true meaning of Christmas.  Rather than numbing ourselves into unconsciousness with endless preparations for the holiday celebration, we were able to "see" clearly what was important to us in this season of celebrating "perfect love made human".   Often, as children, before we began to look at life as hard, heavy, or evil, we saw the world as the most abundant place, filled with all we needed and more.  Christmas was filled with anticipation, magic, simple joy.  As we have grown older, we became aware of dreams not fulfilled, suffering surrounding our lives and those we love, evil and lack which is a part of many of our brother's and sister's daily existance.  We lost the magic and wonder of Christmas.  Thus, we now numb ourselves to the greater truth that is with us not only on Christmas, but throughout the year:  The world is no less a magical place than it was when we were children.  The manner in which the universe operates has not changed.  It is our beliefs and expectations which have shifted, causing us to behave in such a way through our overindulgence and excess that we become numb to what we knew as children. 

     How do we gain back our childhood wonder and magic?  The Grinch thought that he could end the magic of Christmas by stealing the superficial trimmings of the celebration.  What he found was that for the Whos, Christmas still came with all its wonder and joy because they still believed in the goodness of those around them and the world in general.  We must trust that all is right with the world and we are right where we are meant to be providing love and service to those in our family, our neighborhood, our community.  It is a universe of infinite possibilities and limitless abundance.  Chosing to believe in the inherent goodness all around us, we must be vigilant and committed to our conscious choice to believe in the wonder and magic of Christmas.   Allowing our hearts to grow three sizes larger as the Grinch did when he became conscious of the truth of Christmas, we will know that truth as well.  Christmas is not about wants and needs.  It is not about how many Christmas trees are beautifully displayed with hundreds of twinkling lights in our homes.  It is not about finding the endless list of gifts our loved ones feel we need to purchase and wrap and give to each of them.  No, the wonder and magic of Christmas is best known through our reaching out in love to our family, friends, neighbors, community, the world.  Allowing God to love others through our deeds, words, thoughts...  And like the "simple shepherds, we hear the angel and find the Lamb; like the wise men, we see the Light of a star and find our wisdom." (Fulton J Sheen)

     So I close with a blessing from  Fra Giovanni in 1513 A.D.  "And so at this Christmas time, I greet you.  Not quite as the world sends greetings, but with profound esteem and with the prayer that for you, now and forever, the day breaks and the shadows flee away."

May you find gratitude and peace during this most holy of Christmas seasons,
Namaste, Joan

Christmas Quotes:
Christmas is not a time nor a season, but a state of mind.  To cherish peace and goodwill, to be plenteous in mercy, is to have the real spirit of Christmas.  Calvin Coolidge

I will honor Christmas in my heart and try to keep it all year.  Charles Dickens

Christmas is the time when you get homesick-even when you're home.  Carol Nelson

Christmas is most truly Christmas when we celebrate it by giving the light of love to those who need it most.  Ruth Carter Stapleton

Probably the reason we all go so haywire at Christmas time with the endless unrestrained and often silly buying of gifts is that we don't quite know how to put our love into words.  Harlan Miller

To perceive Christmas through its wrapping becomes more difficult with every year.  E B White

Wretched excess is an unfortunate human trait that turns a perfectly good idea such Chritmas into a frenzy of last minute shopping.  Jon Anderson

It is Christmas every time you let God love others through you...Yes, it is Christmas every time you smile at your brother and offer him your hand.  Mother Teresa of Calcutta

Consider Christmas-could Satan in his most malignant mood have devised a worse combination of graft plus bunkum than the system whereby several hundred million people get a billion or so gifts for which they have no use, and some thousands of shop clerks die of exhaustion while selling them, and every child in the Western world is made ill from overeating-all in the name of the lowly Jesus.  Upton Sinclair

The simple shepherds heard the voice of an angel and found their Lamb; the wise men saw the light of a star and found their wisdom.  Fulton Sheen

And so at this Christmas time, I greet you.  Not quite as the world sends greetings, but with profound esteem and with the prayer that for you, now and forever, the day breaks, and the shadows flee away.
Fra Giovanni



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